LONELINESS QUOTES III

quotations about loneliness

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Is it really possible to avoid loneliness, or to keep it in control? Surely. The matter is wholly personal. The way to begin is, oddly enough, by learning how to be impersonal, to stop the eternal concern for oneself, in caring more and more for the things of interest outside. For loneliness, though it may seem unselfish, is really a kind of selfishness. It is emphasis of self even while being a depreciation of self. If the lonely people would only stop thinking about themselves they would cease to be lonely.

JOHN DANIEL BARRY

"Loneliness", Reactions and Other Essays Discussing Those States of Feeling and Attitude of Mind That Find Expression In Our Individual Qualities


Loneliness is one of the bugbears of mankind. With some people, it is a constant source of unhappiness. They make plans, sometimes exceedingly complex, to keep it at bay. They think that it lies outside. It really lies within their own consciousness.

JOHN DANIEL BARRY

"Loneliness", Reactions and Other Essays


My loneliness is like the tarmacs where planes never rest;
they touch and then take flight.
Let it be the launching pad for dreams,
brief respite for crafts that sweep the stars.

JAMIE ZWIEBEL

"The Lonely Season", Poems Written While Not Studying at Harvard


Loneliness doesn't have much to do with where you are.

HUGH HEFNER

Esquire, Jun. 2002

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It's paradoxical that where people are the most closely crowded, in the big coastal cities in the East and West, the loneliness is the greatest.

ROBERT M. PIRSIG

Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance


How dear to the mind of the sage are the thoughts that are bred in loneliness; for there is as it were music at his heart, and he talketh within him as with friends.

MARTIN FARQUHAR TUPPER

Tupper's Proverbial Philosophy

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God, but life is loneliness, despite all the opiates, despite the shrill tinsel gaiety of "parties" with no purpose, despite the false grinning faces we all wear. And when at last you find someone to whom you feel you can pour out your soul, you stop in shock at the words you utter -- they are so rusty, so ugly, so meaningless and feeble from being kept in the small cramped dark inside you so long.

SYLVIA PLATH

The Unabridged Journals of Sylvia Plath

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Lonely people, in talking to each other can make each other lonelier.

LILLIAN HELLMAN

The Autumn Garden

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Why do people have to be this lonely? What's the point of it all? Millions of people in this world, all of them yearning, looking to others to satisfy them, yet isolating themselves. Why? Was the earth put here just to nourish human loneliness?

HARUKI MURAKAMI

Sputnik Sweetheart

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Even to loneliness there is an end, for those who are lonely enough, long enough.

THEODORE STURGEON

"Saucer of Loneliness"


Physical distance between people has nothing to do with loneliness. It's psychic distance.

ROBERT M. PIRSIG

Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance

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Loneliness is never more cruel than when it is felt in close proximity with someone who has ceased to communicate.

GERMAINE GREER

The Female Eunuch

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Loneliness will sit over our roofs with brooding wings.

BRAM STOKER

Dracula

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The survival of the fittest is going to make some man very lonesome some day.

EVAN ESAR

20,000 Quips & Quotes


I see around me games and fun but I'm not asked to play.
Whence this awful loneliness amid life's grand buffet?

ROBERT H. OLANDER

The Traveler and Other Poems


It is loneliness that makes the loudest noise. This is as true of men as of dogs.

ERIC HOFFER

"Thoughts of Eric Hoffer", The New York Times Magazine, Apr. 25, 1971

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I don't think that loneliness is necessarily a bad or unconstructive condition. My own skill at jamming time may actually be dependent on some fluid mixture of emotions, among them curiosity, sexual desire, and love, all suspended in a solvent medium of loneliness.

NICHOLSON BAKER

The Fermata

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No one ever discovers the depths of his own loneliness.

GEORGES BERNANOS

The Diary of a Country Priest

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Each way means loneliness -- and communion.

T. S. ELIOT

The Cocktail Party

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Nothing is more sterile or lamentable than the man content to live within himself.

HAROLD PINTER

Tea Party

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